Jen, I remember when my mom had her hip replacement - the relief from the previous non-stop pain was instant and from the moment she woke up after the anaesthetic she felt and sounded so much happier. Fingers crossed E is home very soon x What is the issue with your bed, is it too high or too low; could it be adjusted to be more suitable for E?
Cruiser, pootling in the garden is so good for the soul; hopefully not much longer before you can get out there and potter and lose yourself in your thoughts and emotions.