Shell, I have had exemplary treatment at different times, it seems to be a real lottery. That night I'd been admitted having a miscarriage with hypovolemic shock. I'd haemorrhaged at home, and the ambulance people took 20 minute to stabilise me before they could take me in, as they couldn't get a bp at one point, it was through the floor, and I was very near a goner! They rushed me in and I was in A&E for several hours on a drip, then they needed to admit me but the only bed they had was on this mixed ward.
I was behind drawn curtains but a couple of times needed a commode behind those curtains, and nearly all the other patients were male
Later that day I had the op I needed and was home that night, but I would have felt a lot more secure (and much less embarrassed!) in a female ward
I don't approve of mixed wards, there is no dignity
With hindsight I should have complained, or my ex should have! I certainly would now I am older and braver, and I certainly would if it was B being treated that way
It was St P****'s in Chertsey in 1998. When I had another tricky miss in Swindon in the GWH six years later they were amazing!