Carers
Posted: 17 Dec 2016, 10:33
Social care for the elderly has been much in the news recently, as in how to fund it. As to that it's always seemed to me that as a country we are slowly running out of money. The welfare state was sold as "cradle to grave care", but I think that certainly isn't the case any more; another little bit gets chipped away every so often.
But I do wonder how much unpaid carers, family members, save the state in caring for elderly parents? We do it, not to the degrees that other people do, but MrsC and her sister do a lot for their 89 year old father. Taking him to the doctors, to hospital, arranging appointments (he can't, he's deaf), picking up prescriptions, taking him on holiday, doing his shopping, arranging a cleaner. Lots of people do the same and more, without them how would older people cope?
My wife has an aunt who still looks after her grandchildren; not as much as she used to as they are teenagers now. She is still also looking after her husband's 94 year old mother and has done for years. At one point she was doing this at the same time as she had a part time job. I honestly take my hat off to her and everybody like her. Ordinary people, going above and beyond and making no fuss about it.
But I do wonder how much unpaid carers, family members, save the state in caring for elderly parents? We do it, not to the degrees that other people do, but MrsC and her sister do a lot for their 89 year old father. Taking him to the doctors, to hospital, arranging appointments (he can't, he's deaf), picking up prescriptions, taking him on holiday, doing his shopping, arranging a cleaner. Lots of people do the same and more, without them how would older people cope?
My wife has an aunt who still looks after her grandchildren; not as much as she used to as they are teenagers now. She is still also looking after her husband's 94 year old mother and has done for years. At one point she was doing this at the same time as she had a part time job. I honestly take my hat off to her and everybody like her. Ordinary people, going above and beyond and making no fuss about it.