meriad wrote:You're spot on Frank. I'd like to consider myself very lucky in that I really don't give a flying toss... my hair is cut 4x a year by my friends mom, I buy cheap facial /beauty products (Sainsbury's own brand because not only absolutely nothing wrong with it, but my main criteria for anything is it's cruelty free). Most of my clothing is ancient... and I'm happy. I'm super content with what and who I am and really don't care what others think or don't think. But I know so many people who as you say are constantly worrying about how they look, what they're wearing; can they keep up with the latest trends; etc. My ex colleague spends a small fortune to fix flaws she thinks she has - she's perfect as is but as far as she's concerned there are so many things wrong with her skin that need covering up.
As for all this political correct advertising etc... you're so right; let's fix things that really need fixing. Society will always do what it wants
Really looking forward to Brum and us setting the world a'right
We're regularly in the company of two very pretty young women, Shannon and Amanda, Tom and Joe's girlfriends. I've never seen Amanda wear make up and she has the clearest skin (even first thing this morning after a couple of hours sleep and a night of clubbing she looked amazing) and I hope she never conforms to what is expected of girls her age, the thickly applied perfect make up and Sharpied eyebrow. Shannon on the other hand is very insecure about how she looks but I don't think she realises how lucky she is. She has that lovely combination of pale skin and dark hair, yet she wears a lot of make up and I really do believe that she uses it as a mask to hide behind. I always complement her, honestly, if I see her before she's got ready when she has no make up on; she really doesn't need to wear it and looks lovely without.
There's far too much pressure on people now to look perfect. Not only do we have magazines selling products with stick thin models showing us how we should look but we're also up against the tiniest of perceived imperfections being Photoshopped out.