WM I know your position. It was also mine. If we are IN then we get in there and MAKE things happen. There are plenty of minorities there to lead. However there is so much in the EU which is behind the UK, we would be forever clashing with the rest.
OK it could work, but not with the character of the UK and the UK politicians.
So we are where we are. We'll never be one of the club and we will never be an effective reformer on the sidelines.
So why stay?
Out of fear?
The UK has nothing to fear on the world stage. Something to lose? Maybe? But only in the short term and what would come of it would be stronger and more powerful in the end.
So we are left with the fudge. So that our political masters don't have to be responsible. After all, if they took us out, who would they have to blame when things didn't go right? Only themselves.
On UK terms I'd need an SNP equivalent. People who are more interested in our national identity and willing to fight for it. OK so that's part an Oxymoron because the SNP wants to get it's own independence only to surrender it again to an even bigger and unrepresentative EU...
But that's life in Politics isn't it.....