Jo, does Joe know what he wants to do, really wants to do, and are his studies aligned to taking him there?
I ask because Becky was all over the place. One week it was this, the next it was that, then suddenly she found what she wanted to do, but was on the wrong course. She jacked in, did part time work while brushing up on her 'new' subject, and then got on to her ideal course.
It cost us getting her out of Manc and into Leeds, but it was worth it in the end. She got a first and all sorts of doors opened.
It might not be a bad idea for you all to sit down and talk things through, but be warned: it will not be easy. Joe might be fine carrying on with what he is doing, but if he wants or needs to jump tracks he will need your support.
(((((hugs))))) to you all.
To be clear, we were dead against Becks leaving Manc because as parents we knew best.
Turns out we were wrong and Becks knew what was best for her.