Saundra, it's a thought. Jan he wouldn't go in a home. He'd probably have to pay and he's quite attached to the money he has in the bank!
Jo - nightmare! Fil complains all the time that no one comes to see him, just like your MiL, , but he's been anti social all his life. He once shouted at one of MrsC's aunties because she came to visit when he was having his tea!