by Weka » 05 Jul 2014, 00:57
I'm pleased others are of the same opinion. The true examples of abuse should be rooted out and dealt with. Cover ups should also be investigated, but, the casual "oops" should not be made into anything. I fear for the rich people that have cases bought against them as I wonder how much of it is about money grabbing. It was different in previous decades, life was different, and social norms were different. I also think there should be a time limit that a case can be brought, say 20 years. If it happened longer than that ago, then tough. Imagine if you did a stupid thing in your youth, it would be nice to have a time when that water under the bridge had well and truly passed.
It is a dangerous road to go down. There was a witch hunt here in the early 90's against men in child care centres and teaching. Far to many 'he said she saids' with no evidence being prosecuted. Men left the profession in droves. As one aquaitence told me a couple of weekends ago, "I couldn't give a hurt child a hug, nor could I hold children's hands in the playground for fear that I would be accused of something" so he left teaching. We now have very very very few males in that industry. It is very unfortunate as now a generation on men with no dads at home, are now also not seeing positive male role models at school either.
The RH case is interesting. The fact that it seems to have a lot of children involved is just not on, and yes that should be punished. Interesting that they aren't going to prosecute for the child pornography. I think they should. Anything against adults though, and I don't know the full details really, do sound a bit trumped up. Like rodo says, grow a backbone and move on. I don't like the word victim either. It gives the perpetrator the power and the other party left feeling like they should have issues with what happened, and therefore should behave in a certain way. In true abuse cases though, obviously, I feel rather different.
Everything happens for a reason