Well it's always worth having a good idea what is likely to happen. There are always preparations you can make personally if you think it's all going to go pear shaped.
The NYT is comparing the situation with prior situations and thinks it's just preventative pressure.
There are other signs that the tensions fall short of war. Mr. Kim continues to appear in public, most recently at a pig farm last weekend. South Koreans are not flooding supermarkets to stock up on food. There is no talk of evacuating cities and no sign the United States is deploying additional forces to South Korea. Nor is the American Embassy in Seoul advising diplomats’ families to leave the country.
All those things happened in the spring of 1994, when President Bill Clinton was considering a pre-emptive strike on a North Korean reactor to prevent the North from extracting plutonium that it could use to make a bomb. That is the closest the United States has come to a military clash with North Korea since the end of the Korean War in 1953.
Although that was with the current Kim's father who was somewhat more grounded in reality. This Kim is totally divorced from reality and seems to become more sure of his infallibility as each year goes by.
In short the lie of the land, as far as I can see it, is that Trump will keep on pushing Kim until he gets what he wants. The main question is whether Kim will be pushed. My own view is that NK will make preparations to cause total havoc around the world before launching anything like a Nuke at anyone. However, given the coded messages sent around the world very recently, we cannot be sure those preparations have not been made. It is then we have to remember that NK is a Nuclear power with a dictator for a leader who has little touch with the reality of MAD. Or perhaps he relies far too much on MAD to protect him after he's set everyone else off.
Right now I don't think it's all going to the dogs. But my concern is that if it does it will go with a bang and not with a slow, long drawn out, build up. The best evidence we will have of that is if the NK regime starts to make preparations for "after".