I'm Shelley Anne Spencer When I was at school I hated Spencer because it was a boys name and I rarely used it. My dad was Eric Spencer and my Luke is Luke Timothy (after his dad) Spencer., so I obviously embraced the family connection. However, I love my Spencer now as I learned when I was doing my family tree that my Dad's mum, who he loved and died of breast cancer when he was 14 was named Annie and her maiden name was Spencer. So I am named after her. I am proud of it now and always use it. On their gravestone, that I had done for them when I did the family tree are Harry Spencer, (my great grandad) his wife Julia Spencer their daughter Annie Pratt nee Spencer (my grandma) and her son, my dad Eric Spencer Pratt.
Tim is Timothy Raymond after his Uncle Ray.
My mum was Daphne Jean, always known as Jean, named Daphne after the nice lady in the bed opposite, honestly who would do that
My dad as I said above was Eric Spencer Pratt always known as Rick
My dad went to register my birth. His list was my mums choice Fiona or Joanna. His choice Felicity or Samantha but on the way he came to thinking of Shelley Winters, as you do and then went and spelt it Shelly. So my birth certificate has a big crossing out and amendment on it because my mum sent him back to spell it properly.