Good morning Thursday

[Kaz]

Just come away now. It was terribly sad, but moving and beautiful too. I think it's good to allow a funeral, even for babes too early even for birth and death certificates - it's a chance to say goodbye, and a focus for the family's grief. The tiny white coffin did make the tears come.... RIP little Lorenzo, born sleeping xxxxxx

[Gal]

Poor little mite xx

Late Aquafit from now on, starting at 10.30. It's our regular instructor, who does a fab class, but we all much prefer the earlier time. Roll on half term!!

Popped into Spenny(moor) again to look in the charity shops, I want another baby vest for Charlie (don't ask!!) and I also bought two nice pictures, one for the caravan and one for home. Altogether it came to £2.25!!

Got home, unpacked the grocery shopping (done after town) and now having a mug of soup - yes it really is that time of year again! Started off sunny, now it's grey and I suspect we're in for some rain later. Grrrrrr.

Tom will be in late tonight (like, 9ish) so I'll be making something that will keep for an hour or two, I'm not waiting that long!

Hospital tomorrow to discuss my heart stuff and no doubt the result of the echo thing I had the other week.

Also I am a little bit cross with Donna this week. She messaged me on Tuesday night to ask if possible, could I please pick Lily up from school 'the odd Thursday, if I am free'. Of course I said yes, just drop me a text when you need me, then she came back with I need Thursdays next few weeks if poss', again I was "Sure that's fine," then she came back with "can you take her AND LEWIS to yours and john will pick up about 5? You have to get Lily at 3.15, then wait in the hall for Lewis coming out at 3.40" SO....what started out as a request to get Lily now and again has in a couple of texts become both of them, with a half hour wait between, for the foreseeable. Why couldn't she have been upfront from the off? Tom's said don't feel pushed into it, tell her no if I can't get them. But of course I will.

Have a good Thursday!! xxx

[meriad]

that's a bit very naughty Gal, I'd also be annoyed

[Gal]

Thanks Ria - I wasn't sure that would read the way I felt. I love them both to bits, but it's going to mean a lot of time management for me from now on, I think. Sigh.

[JoM]

That's really unfair of her to do that Gal, I'm sure she knows that you won't say no. Hopefully it is just for a few weeks and won't be a regular thing throughout the school year.

[Ally]

Just come away now. It was terribly sad, but moving and beautiful too. I think it's good to allow a funeral, even for babes too early even for birth and death certificates - it's a chance to say goodbye, and a focus for the family's grief. The tiny white coffin did make the tears come.... RIP little Lorenzo, born sleeping xxxxxx

So incredibly sad. xxxxxx

[JanB]

Kaz, heartbreaking for you all.

Gal, I'd be more than annoyed What happens if you can't do it?

Well, slight change of plan here None of the cleaning or ironing got done

I spent all day in the garden Moved a plant, put some new one's in, removed the eaten one's And have just made a curry

[JoM]

Kaz, that must've been so sad to see. Those poor people

[Gal]

Gal, I'd be more than annoyed What happens if you can't do it?

No idea - I think she's hoping I can!! I doubt I'll be doing it for long....she's been looking for a change of job to F/T once Lily started school, but it would mean her working closer to home. Atm, she has to drive to Sunderland, which is about half an hour on a good day, and MUCH more on a bad one! She had an interview a couple of weeks ago to a hospital only 6 miles from home - and got it!! Think she starts November, so it'll only be till then. Tom and I will be away for one of the weeks as we have holiday to take, she'll have to work something else out then.

Thanks so much for all your support - I was a little hesitant to post as it makes me seem like I don't want to do it. I do, it's more the way she has gone about asking me. She almost always asks through her dad, so he has to pass messages to me. This time he told her to ask me, he said he has no idea what I do on my days off!! (he so has!! )

[Kaz]

Thanks everyone xxx

Gal, that's really not on xxx